Surname ka Funda

Recently on Air I was hearing an interesting conversation that Girls who change their surnames after marriage do definitely fall under category of Emotional ones . And girls who don’t change surnames are considered more of independent kinds. Also most of the companies while hiring do consider this .... ... the talk also discussed  about females who get married late do not change the surname and those who marry early do change surnames....It was Interesting talk altogether......

thinking on same lines I was thinking about myself as my name " Mansi Dadhich Mahur" ....as such I opted to keep both Surnames never thinking anything emotional but more logical.

My Middle name same as my original Surname: Since all my certificates degree etc had my Father surname I kept that as it is as my middle name. Just to avoid any complexities later with names.

My Last Name : made my Husbands surname as my last name , again logically thinking for anything for that matter if you have Husbands Surname also associated with your name it becomes little less complex on rental resident proof etc.

As always I believe in making things as less complex as possible … there are many more things in life, which are pretty important for any human’s Identity. Just own few of them to make the world better and waisae bhi " naam mein kya rakha hai ".

So whats your surname... how are people going about that...

Medicine for Obesity

Medicine for getting rid of Obesity:

got to know but never tried: medicine for getting rid of Obesity " PHYTOLACCA BARRY "
chew 2-2-2 tabs daily

Gangaur Geet

Badi wala badi khol , badi ki kiwadi khol choriyan aai pujanae (2)
Isar das phool gulab ko , bai gaura ...phulwari re ... paro ji phool Gulab ko

Isar daas ko kangasio mein mol lesan raaja, Gorra bai ka lamba lamba kes... kangasio bai kae siran dharo ji raaj

Gor aae Gangaur maat khol kiwadi bahar uubi thari poojan wali .. poojo aae pooriyan bai kai kain mango ... an manga dhan maanga lagar lichmi... kankawar so biro managa rai si bhojai.

Gor Gor Gomti isar pujar parwati , Parwati ra aala Gila Gor ka sona ka tika ... tika de tamka de rani ... barat kare Gawra je rani. karta karta aas aayo , maas aayo khere khato laddo layao ... laddo le bira nae diyo ...biro le bhawaj ne diyo .. bhawaj le gatakae gi ...chunar oodai gi ...tan man 16 , ssat katora , isar gora dona ra joda .. raniyan poojae raaj ne ...mein maarae sawag ne ... raniyaan ne raaj paath deyo ..mhane mharo sawag deo

Pato do pato dho ...bira ki ben pato dho ..pate uper pila paan mein jasan bira ki jaan...bira ne paranae lasan

If baby or mother has cold : what to do

My Granny’s Tip 2 for babies:

If Baby has cold then do following:
1) Heat Mustard oil and put 2 garlic pieces in it and rub over baby’s chest and body (both morning and night before sleep).
2) Rub the same oil around nose.
3) Give half tea spoon paste of dried peel of Pomegranate mixed in hot water this will relax him/her from cough.
Hug your baby and tell in his ears closely “ Mummy is there you will be alright”

Song written by my Mother

http://il.youtube.com/watch?v=uuxXFgmZ108 : This Song is written by my mother Late Aruna Dadhich and sund by A K Vyas Uncle.

Medicines and Massage Oil for babies

Harad for little one is very good , its as good as mothers milk.
Harad with following if given twice in a week really works great:

• jaifhal
• marodfali
• badam
• pista
• mulethi
• manjiphal
• khajoor

just rub 2 strokes on rock used to make paste .

Maid Planning

To All Ladies..... if you are working and want to have a Quality time with your Family ensure you have enough hands to help you out in other day to day things ( Household cleaning mopping......cooking....etc...) don't end up doing everything.

You are great Manager but at the same time you have capacity to carry out certain activities in a day. If you overdo that's not good for you and your family so "Delegate" which does not add Value.

Now sometimes Maids are more of a headache then help...explaining things again and again , handling their unplanned leaves ....ensuring they dont degrade the Quality of work etc etc ..you feel like doing all things on own. True agree and thats what we need to understand and work on .They are also human and as a human we can partner with them for Performance ..with this blog sharing my view points on effective maid planning. Effective maid planning can add a lot to your work life balance if you are working.

Following are Do's and Dont's for Effective Maid Planning :

1. Explain them the profile well and stick to that.
2. Dont personalise much. Do give them a helping hand but maintain professionalism.
3. Dont give any thing which is of no use to your house , else rest of the things will be taken in the same way also you yourself will start expecting many things in return which if you dont get can turn things sour.Rather you donate these things to someone else in need  .
4. Keep Bonus associated with Salary which should get attached to their leave planning.
5. Dont get angry immediately if you see some mistake . Try to understand the root cause and act on the problem rather person.
6. with little effectiveness if you handle your maid you will see wonders .
7. If you have 2 maids then they will be good for you till they are competing as soon as they are friends ... you get to be careful....

Any better suggestions please post.